This Is the Rules

Parenting doesn't get easier, it just gets different.
Have More Kids. Pay Less Attention to Them.

Bryan Caplan wrote a big article to support this assertion but, really, there’s no need to. (via pegobry)

“The obvious lesson to draw is that parents should lighten up.  I call it “Serenity Parenting”: Parents need the serenity to accept the things they cannot change, the courage to change the things they can, and (thank you twin research) the wisdom to know the difference.  Focus on enjoying your journey with your child, instead of trying to control his destination. Accept that your child’s future depends mostly on him, not your sacrifices. Realize that the point of discipline is to make your kid treat the people around him decently—not to mold him into a better adult.  I can’t say that I completely convinced my wife on any of these points, but we made reasonable compromises—and we found that raising twins was a lot of fun.”

(via pegobry)